Gransthread by Margaret Graham

So, what does Gran do with herself when she’s not (ho hum) pole dancing?

 

I was invited to celebrate the twentieth anniversary of the High Wycombe & District branch of the U3A at an extraordinary venue, St Katherine’s, Parmoor, Henley-on-Thames. This estate was once owned by the Knights Templar, and was probably a farmhouse, which over the years, like Topsy, has ‘growed’.

It has changed hands many times, and intriguingly King Zog and his family  arrived here in 1941 in exile from Albania, and on his departure, a few years later the Community of St. Katherine  of Alexandria, a High Anglican Religious Community took refuge here, after being bombed out of their home in Fulham during the war. At St Katherine’s they found  peace and tranquility for the next 51 years after which it became the  home of The Sue Ryder Prayer Fellowship.

 

Now it welcomes people from all walks of life and denominations for day and residential retreats, and a small permanent staff encourage St Katherine’s to be used for  meetings and celebrations.

 

So here we were, lunching in a paneled dining hall which has seen many extraordinary people: celebrating many more who are members of the U3A.

 

So what is the U3A?

 

The University of the Third Age (U3A) movement is a unique and exciting organisation which provides, through its regional U3As, life-enhancing and life-changing opportunities. Today’s retired and semi-retired are not quite ready to sit knitting in front of daytime television, if indeed, they ever were and the U3A facilitates our need to continue to develop our knowledge and expertise.

 

Within each regional U3A, members share their skills and life experiences by running classes in anything from creative writing, to exploring art, to archery, to – heaven knows what, perhaps even pole dancing.  What’s more, there is no charge beyond the annual fee, which amounts to VERY little.

Every month there is a speaker, to continue the University thread. There are day trips, and holidays, the most recent to Tuscany.

 

So, this is one of the things Gran does, and Gramps too probably. But this is just a tiny bit of a grandparent’s life. Some of us work, still. But more about that next time, because retirement ain’t what it used to be. We grans and gramps still have miles to go, and promises to keep… to quote Robert Frost.

 

The U3A movement is supported by its national organisation, the Third Age Trust.

 

http://u3asites.org.uk/highwycombe/welcome
http://www.u3a.org.uk

 

St Katherine’s, Parmoor, Henley-on-Thames http://www.srpf.org.uk

 

 

Why Did I Take Up The Ukulele? By Sylvia Chadwick

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Life is like a road with many turnings and my musical interests have been many and varied.

It started way back as a child when I loved the weekly “Singing Together” programme broadcast on the radio for schools. At secondary school, our music teacher was inspirational, and talented enough to play every instrument in the school orchestra. I longed to emulate him. I began as hundreds of others have done by playing the recorder and moved on to the violin. My parents? Tolerant or deaf I would think. I eventually became part of the youth orchestra and finally became the leader… more about my age than ability.

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I began to play an accordion because my dear old Dad thought it was a super instrument and you could always earn a bob or two in a dance band. At the time I just wanted to make music so I started to learn on a small 48 bass one and soon moved to a much larger one, which was almost as big as me… being rather a small child.

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However this was not ‘cool’ as in the 60s everyone played the guitar and what teenager wants to be different than their peers. If only my dad had known that that it was the best tool I ever had for teaching young children to enjoy singing.

All this led to Chester Teachers’ Training College to study music and drama as part of my teaching course. It was here that I took up the piano. I was catching up with my secondary teacher.

It was in retirement that I joined High Wycombe and district U3A. Somehow my musical skills were discovered. A friend approached me one day saying that she knew that I played the guitar but did I play the ukulele?

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Did I? Well no, but I remembered a ukulele which I had been bought as a kind of joke Christmas present a couple of years earlier. I was in business. We went to listen to an established group in Marlow to see what we thought. First impressions? It was in a pub, so bring it on. In the back room were around 40 players. We sat down to listen when someone put a ukulele in my hand, I managed a few chords and I realised that I was hooked.

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So lets start a group up in the U3A we decided. We hoped that we could find a teacher but no one came forward so without more ado I was coerced into leading the group.

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We have been going around 6 months now and the group is growing from an initial start of around 12 to over 20. We have a percussion section too, and that is growing well.

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We meet once a month to play and we had our first ‘gig’ at our Christmas U3A coffee morning. It was great fun and seeing the smiles on everyone’s faces was fantastic. Its not a difficult instrument to get the basics going but it is really good fun to play together. I am still learning and keeping enough steps ahead of the group to be able to pass on the skills. My philosophy is that you cannot be sad when you are singing a cheery song and playing a ukulele. I love it. So we just keep strumming.