A Staycation Beats The Winter Blues

With the economy on the rise, businesses are having a ball. While increased income puts many much closer to affording vacations in luxurious destinations, what this means for most professionals is more work and even less personal time. Taking a well-deserved vacation is shelved once again.

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The term staycation was coined during the financial crisis of 2007-2010 in the U.S. and subsequently when the U.K. pound sterling dropped in 2009 and destination vacations became too expensive. Today, staycations are making a comeback because workaholics can’t find the time to take longer than a weekend away.

 

If a staycation is all you have time for, there are many modern conveniences that can bring luxury and decadence right to your front door. It does take a little planning, but relaxing right at home can truly satisfy as the season gets chillier.

 

To create the feel of a vacation, take a half-day on Friday and come in after lunch on Monday. No one is so indispensible that they cannot take 2 half days off. Plan your staycation like you would a vacation – all inclusive. One of the most important things NOT to do on a staycation is clean up after yourself. Make sure you are pampered as if you were not at home.

 

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Whether it’s cleaning your flat in London or your ranch house outside New York, schedule someone to come each day you are home. Have them do all of your dishes, make your beds and change your towels daily. Pay extra for special touches like fresh flowers, setting your bathroom up as a spa or simply prepping coffee for the morning. Just a few consecutive days of not tending to dirty dishes or smoothing rumpled sheets is going to make a huge difference to your mood.

 

Make sure you collect all the local menus and delivery services in case you want “room service” or the weather runs foul and you choose to stay in. Have a local gourmet grocery deliver decadent snacks of fruit and cheese, wine and champagne. Use your best china and crystal, knowing someone else will clean up after you.

 

Make Friday night your big night out and then in. No matter where you live, have a luxury car pick you up and take you to an early dinner reservation at the trendiest restaurant in town. Reservations before 6PM are usually easy to get. You also get to come home before the evening chill really sets in.

 

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Have a friend prep the house while you are gone to turn your living room into a nightclub and casino. Change out some lights, hang a disco ball and have your favorite dance mix ready to play. Put wine or champagne on ice and, when you arrive home, dance like no one is watching.

 

Hook your computer up to your large screen TV, get your friends over and get ready to bring the thrill of real-time action into your front room. Play live games with real dealers and cheer each other on as you toss the dice on the craps table or beat the house at Blackjack. You never know – Monte Carlo could actually be your next holiday!

 

For Saturday and Sunday, split the planning up and assign a day and a budget to each person. That way everyone gets a nice surprise. Many people never know the historic or unique attractions of their home city unless someone comes to visit. Check into local tours or events or better yet, download a local activities app to discover what’s going on in your neck of the woods.

 

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Choose a weekend where there is a music festival or holiday gala going on. Get last minute tickets to a favorite sporting event or check out local fairs and farmer’s markets – all the things you never have time for. Jump on a train and take a day tour of the countryside or simply go to the movies.

 

Make sure you take that half-day Monday so Sunday evening can be a special evening at home. Hire a traveling spa to provide late afternoon massages and body treatments followed by a bath. Get a personal chef to create a gourmet dinner at home. Nothing is too extravagant – after all, you don’t work by halves, so why do relaxation as if you don’t really mean it?

For Monday, find a local restaurant that serves weekday brunch or breakfast and have your car take you to your lovely morning before returning to work. Make a plan to get each other a small and special gift to celebrate your staycation. And don’t forget to take pictures to record your treasured memories!

 

 

To give, or to keep? I’ve already decided what I’d do.

 

Just occasionally I am sent something that knocks off my socks. This is one of those times.pic-1-treasury

The Botanical Treasury is stunning, and would make a wonderful gift for someone who is interested in art, gardening, or just something on a different level to normal Christmas presents.

(or keep it for yourself and give them chocs. Yes, a much better idea.)

The Botanical Treasury celebrates 40 of the World’s most fascinating plants through rare prints and classic texts.

It contains 40 frameable prints, and though it costs £35 it is cheap at the price.

Within the hard cover are some of the great archival treasures of the Royal Botanic Gardens, Kew. The illustrations are breathtaking and the facsimile documents are fascinating.

Experts at Kew have chosen the collection, a collection including the passionflower, and the peony and even includes the Banksia, the Australian plant named after Sir Joseph Banks who travelled with James Cook on his first voyage of discovery.

This particularly moved me, because I have seen Banksia every time I have been in Australia researching a book and the illustration is superb.

Read the classic texts, such as Gerard’s herbal or The Histoirie of Plants 1597 and The Gardener’s Dictionary of 1731.

The Botanical Treasury: Price £35.00

Carlton Books have a great selection of other books, all of which cause me to salivate – but not on the books, of course.

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Try this: for both the connoisseur and the newcomer, The Treasures of Champagne by Tom Bruce-Gardyne, celebrates this remarkable liquid by exploring how champagne has become so deeply embedded in the world’s consciousness.

The celebration of bubbly proves, once and for all, that the world would be a poorer place without champagne, as indeed would Christmas.

The Treasures of Champagne Price £ 40.00

Then there is TANKS – 100 years of armoured warfare  by The Tank Museum and Robin Cross

 

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Price £26.00

And on, and on. Have a look at their website and treat yourself, or if you’re noble, someone else.

www.carltonbooks.co.uk to see the range.

 

 

 

 

Stocking Filler Ideas For Christmas

Let’s be honest, Christmas is just not the same without a stocking. Here are our picks.

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Pure Reship Oil from Nelsons

Pure Rosehip Oil is a must have. Made from 100% pure Rosehip Oil, cold pressed to create the highest grade product, the richness of the Rosehip makes it wonderful for dry skin. Rosehip Oil was also reportedly favoured by Kate Middleton during her second pregnancy making her look radiant throughout, so it’s the perfect stocking filler for those who love to take care of their skin.   

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You can even keep a cool head over the busy festive period with Rescue Plus Lozenge. Whether you’redoing final checks on the turkey or flitting between family members, ensuring their Christmas spirit is still going strong, Rescue PlusLozenge has a soothing orange and elderflower liquid centre and contains pantothenic acid (vitamin B5) which helps support normal mental performance.

 

Christmas can be a hectic time, so help friends and family take a moment to unwind and enjoy the festivities, by putting Rescue Plus Spearmint Chewing Gum in their stockings. With the act of chewing suggested to help calm and relax the mind, RESCUE Spearmint Chewing Gum, with its liquid flower essences centre, is both a handbag and desk essential.

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The winter months can often be harsh on hands and skin, so treat your friends and family to Nelsons Calendula Cream in their stockings this Christmas. Containing natural extract of calendula and known for its skin conditioning properties, it will leave their hands and skin in tip top condition, ensuring they look and feel their best throughout the festive period.

RESCUE, Nelsons arnicare and Nelsons Calendula are all available from Sainsbury’s, independent pharmacies and health food stores, grocery stores nationwide and online at www.amazon.co.uk.

We are fans of all. 

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Lord & Berry Crayon Lipstick

Lord & Berry 20100 Lipstick Crayon’s are streamlined lipstick pencils, the perfect size to fit in your travel makeup bag. They’re small in size but pack a punch with colour. Perfect stocking gifts.

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by Sainsbury’s Small Hot Water Bottle with Socks

We really loves these. So comfy and fluffy. from sainsburys.co.uk

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By Sainsbury’s sweet shop
Great retro sweets in great jars and a caddy. A good gift from sainsburys.co.uk

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by Sainsbury’s Copper Coated Measuring Cups

Take the guess work out of cooking with these beautiful, yet functional measuring cups. From sainsburys.co.uk

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Paw Paw Papaya

A great moisturising balm from Australia. Enriched with Bio Active Manuka Honey 20+, this is a topical balm that soothes, relieves and moisturises dry, sensitive skin. Great for chapped lips. It has no parabens and no sulphates. It can even be used on children and those with eczema, psoriasis and dermatitis.

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Jojoba 100% Natural Jojoba + Rosehip Oil

Wonderful stuff that makes a difference to skin. 100% natural. Great for dry skin, strechmarks, scars and hair. Can be used on all skin types.

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PMB Moustache Wax

One for the well groomed men. Pall Mall Barbers Sandalwood & Clove Moustache Wax

A must-have product for men with facial hair, the moustache wax is designed with only the finest ingredients in mind. Naturally found in essential oils, our firm hold wax helps keep your moustache fixed in place all day long, as well as helping to moisturise and neaten the facial hair. Developed with their classic signature London barber fragrance of sandalwood and clove, skin is left with a subtle scent lasting all day long.  Available from Pall Mall Barbers stores and http://www.pallmallbarbers.co.uk

 

No Stocking would be complete without some sweet stuff. We recommend…

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Mr Stanley’s Salted Almond Brittle

A bit different and very yummy.

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Mr Stanley’s White Chocolate Matches With Popping Candy

Unique and delicious. The popping candy is very subtle.

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Mr Stanley’s Salted Chocolate Truffle Fudge

These were wolfed down quickly at Frost HQ. The best fudge we have ever tasted.

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Mr Stanley’s Gummy Gingerbread Men

Original and they taste great.

All from mrstanleys.co.uk

 

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Carluccio’s Fichi Al Rhum

Chocolate coated fig, rum and walnut bar. Wonderfully boozy. Perfect for Christmas. A winner.

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Swizzles Drumsticks

A classic.

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Swizzles Drumstick Squashies

Another classic but with a (relatively) new twist. We LOVE these.

 

A Day in the Life of author Suzanne Lambert

pic-1-suzanneAs a happily retired woman I no longer need to leap out of bed shouting at the alarm clock, stumbling around in the dark wondering how on earth it can still feel like the middle of the night and wishing I could go back to bed. Oh those long ago days when each night my head hit the pillow and I slept all night. Now my brain likes to keep my best ideas until the moment I close my eyes. There they are, the people in my book dancing about in my mind’s eye acting out their story.   Why on earth I get my creative inspiration at the most inappropriate times is beyond me.

 

Many moons ago I studied the art of meditation and decided that a good doze of mindfulness was necessary for a good start to the day.   Today I decided to give this another try. This was going to be the new me, all calm, centred and brimming with creativity. The window cleaner was the first to disturb me by clattering his ladders against my bedroom window. As I lie with the blinds open so I can look at the sky at night, which I love, I leapt out of bed, tripped over the book lying on the floor and banged my knee on the bed before doing a rugby dive to grab the cord and pull the blinds down. Can’t be traumatising my window cleaner this early in the day poor man.

 

In the morning I like to sit and have a cuppa and chat with my husband over breakfast whilst he watches the news. I say chat, I talk, and he pretends to listen. Today, was going to be an excellent day I told him, regardless of my painful start.

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My favourite day is one spent with my family. They never fail to encourage me and their support, belief and love make my world a wonderful place to be. Still there is not a day goes by when I don’t wonder how I became a published writer and have to pinch myself to make sure I am not dreaming. I was loved beyond measure growing up and my mother was one of the kindest and most beautiful souls yet I was never told that dreams came true or to believe in myself. Be thankful for what we have she would say smiling and I always was.

 

Today, the second person to disturb my morning calm was the postman knocking at my door. I opened the parcel and there it was. My second book, hot off the press. It is so hard to describe the feeling of actually holding the first copy in your hands. I felt tearful as my husband came over and hugged me then rang the family to spread the news. We were all going to celebrate together tonight.

 

Well, my day started with meditation and ended with a good few glasses of wine. Sounds like a good day all round to me.

A Christmas Angel at the Ragdoll Orphanage – Suzanne Lambert pb £6.99

 

BEST ENDEAVOURS BEST IDEAS: Jane Cable on what happens once that digital publishing deal is in the bag

rembranbrancesundayIsn’t it funny how the most important emails just seem to slide into your inbox at the most inopportune times? Late on Monday afternoon my edit notes and first proof came back from Endeavour – just as I was wolfing down an early supper ready to go to Chindi Authors’ monthly meeting. I scanned the email – heart in mouth – only to find myself reeling from the last sentence.
But I had no time to consider the contents – the Chindi meeting was an important one, mainly devoted to planning the final details of our #LovetoRead fundraising evening for Dyslexia Action on Friday. Raffle prizes to co-ordinate, running order to finalise, budget for canapés to be agreed… All whirling around my head in an unusually disorganized fashion while I tried to digest the email bombshell.
To be honest, now I’m used to the idea, it doesn’t seem so bad. Endeavour want me to change the title of the book, that’s all. And to put things in context, the edit notes extended to only three points, the last one prefaced with the phrase ‘this probably isn’t important’. They’re useful and fair and acting on them will certainly improve the book.

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The problem with changing the title was that I didn’t have a clue where to begin. You become wedded to the name of your book over the years of development and when agent Felicity loved it too I felt sure I’d be able to keep it. Changing my mindset is something akin to turning an oil tanker but I’m determined to do it and come up with something better.
First some guidance was required from Amy, Endeavour’s publishing director and her answer came back clear and strong: look in the Kindle charts for books of a similar genre – and a tip that short phrases from films or songs often do well. Now my knowledge of films is limited to say the least (having not been to the cinema since the third… or maybe fourth… Harry Potter movie came out) but at least I have a neighbour with a first class degree in the subject so his enormous brain was brought to bear on the challenge.
I quickly realised it’s impossible to instil all the nuances of a book into just a few words and that made me try to set out what it’s really about. It isn’t about seahorses (although they feature fairly strongly) and it isn’t about summer (although the action all takes place between April and August). It’s about being damaged, and healing, and moving on with your life. Or not – as the case may be. It looks back at the past – D-Day specifically – or perhaps the past looks forwards at us. No one title is ever going to cover it all.
So now there is a page in my notebook with an increasing number of titles on it. The most obvious ones have inevitably been taken but I have a few which might just do the trick. And I’m still canvassing opinion, so if you have any bright ideas then please, please let me know.

Jane Cable is the author of two independently published romantic suspense novels, The Cheesemaker’s House and The Faerie Tree, and a sporadic contributor to Frost. Jane will be reading from The Faerie Tree at Chindi Author’s #LovetoRead party in Chichester on 18th November. More details here: http://www.chindi-authors.co.uk/news/
The Seahorse Summer (or whatever it ends up being called) tells the tale of how two American soldiers born sixty years apart help forty-something Marie Johnson to rebuild her shattered confidence and find new love. Discover more at www.janecable.com.

 

Great Christmas Gifts For The Fitness Fanatic

Go Fit Cross Extreme Ab Wheel

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The GoFit Ab Wheel is an excellent way to obtain a more defined toned set of abs. The rolling action of the Ab Wheel trains both the upper and lower abdominal walls. The Ab Wheel has dual wheels and non-slip foam grip handles.

  • Excellent to obtain more defined toned set of abs
  • Trains both upper and lower abdominal wall
  • Dual wheels
  • Non-slip foam grip handles
  • Combine with cardio program for washboard abs

I loved this. I do a lot of HIIT and this great workout tool takes your work out to a whole new level. 

From bodybuilding.com

 

ProSource Total Upper Body Conditioning Multi-Grip Pull Up Bar

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Finally, The heavy duty Multi-Grip Pull-Up Bar is made with high grade steel for a sturdy design that’s built to last. The multiple grip positions allow you to perform wide, hammer, and close-grip pull-ups and chin-ups, and hanging abdominal exercises. You can also place on the floor to use for push-ups or triceps dips. It slips easily onto any standard doorframe and can hold up to 300 lb. Convenient for at-home workouts, it’s easy to assemble and built to last – a perfect workout accessory to strengthen your entire upper body in the comfort of your own home.

Features

  • Ideal for pull-ups, sit-ups, push-ups, dips and leg raises
  • 12 cushioned foam grips
  • Work muscles from a variety of angles
  • Fits onto standard door frames 24”-36” wide or can be wall-mounted
  • Portable design that is quick and easy to assemble

 

A great bar to reach your peak fitness. It brings the gym into your home.  A great tool that lets you train like a pro at home. Highly recommended. A great gift. 

From bodybuilding.com

 

Polk Boom Bit Wearable Speaker 

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Polk BOOM have launched this truly wearable ‘Ready for Anything’ Bluetooth Speaker. Combining music listening and hands-free phone convenience in a ruggedized enclosure that is sweat, dirt, sand and shockproof, BIT is the perfect accessory for anyone who lives an active lifestyle. Measuring only 7 cm x 3 cm, BIT’s robust clip can be secured to any item of clothing, backpack or cycle helmet, whilst its three-hour play time is ample for even the most ardent of commutes, rides or workouts.

 The Polk BOOM BIT is available in Black, Sport Blue, Volt Yellow, Lava Red and a two-toned Grey/Mint

Griffin Survivor Adventure 3 cases in 1

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A fantastic phone case which fits the iPhone 7 and the iPhone 6 and 6s. Survives an 8ft drop on concrete. Is a thin case with 2 extra backs. A great case that protects your phone while you get fit.

Griffin Survivor Adventure Case for iPhone 7/6S/6 is available here.

 

Arnicare Bath & Massage Balm

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For those who like nothing more than to relax and unwind after a busy day, Nelsons arnicare arnica Bath & Massage Balm, is a dual purpose balm enriched with Evening Primrose and rich Sweet Almond oil to naturally hydrate the skin. Designed for massaging into tired muscles or for use in a relaxing bath following a hectic day, the natural properties of Arnica Montana extract and sweet scents of Lavender and Grapefruit essential oils help calm senses and relax the mind.

Great for a post-workout bath or massage. Helps with muscle aches. Stick it in a stocking as it is great stuff. 

From boots.com and hollandandbarrett.com

 

Arnicare Cooling Gel

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With more people than ever now interested in health and fitness, and with such a variety of exercise classes on the market, we all know someone who really works hard when it comes to training. Nelsons arnicare arnica Cooling Gel is ideal for massaging into tired and over-worked legs, to help cool and revive them. Combining the natural benefits of arnica with the refreshing sensation of grapefruit oil and menthol, it could even be the gym bag essential for those fitness resolutions in the New Year.

Really helps when muscles are aching. If you buy this for a fitness-obsessed friend they will be very grateful. 

From boots.com and hollandandbarrett.com

 

More Books for Christmas   by Milly Adams

Here at Frost we’re having a bit of a bookfest, as the books pour in for review. We’re glad we have Milly Adams, author of Sisters at War on the team. She’s been catching up on her reading and has some good ‘uns for us.

pic-1-lebor  The Reykjavic Assignment by Adam Lebor is an international thriller from renowned political journalist Ada Lebor. He takes us behind the corridors of power and let’s face it, those corridors are looking totally fascinating now.

UN covert negotiator Yeael Azoulay has been sent to Reykjavik to broker a secret meeting between US President Freshwater and the Iranian President. Though both parties want the violence to stop there are others, enemies, but who, pulling the strings?

Are they people who are protecting their profits?

I love this kind of writing. Sharp, evocative, rhythmic, visual, terrifying. Buy it, read it, give it.

Adam LeBor lives in Budapest and writes for several international newspapers, as well as Hitler’s Secret Bankers. Margaret Graham said some had kept her awake recently. Perhaps this will be the same for you.

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Find Her   by Lisa Gardner

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I agree with a friend of mine who couldn’t put this down. Hardly surprising as Gardner is a Sunday Times top ten bestseller. And is a master of the psychological suspense novel.

There are a lot of these about these days, but this is one of the best. Taut writing, tight plotting, a story to turn your  hair grey. Flora Dane survived her hell of imprisonment locked for more than a year in a pine box by a madman. She has only one goal: to develop all the skills necessary to make sure she’s never caught again. But then another girl goes missing. The female detective thinks Flora could be the key to finding her. But Flora has no intention of following Detective Warren rules. I wouldn’t read it last thing at night, or you’ll never put it down,

 

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The Longest Winter by Kevin Sullivan

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This debut novel is a portrait of a city and its people in a moment of enormous suffering. Margaret Graham was in Bosnia and Croatia soon after ‘peace’ was brokered researching a novel. Desolation of mind, people and places was the only word she could think of to describe it, but then realised there was hope too . Sullivan brings this sense into our sitting rooms as he intertwines three life stories all of which seem to be on the path for redemption. Terry is a British doctor on a mission to rescue a sick child, Brad an American journalist trying to save his reputation following the disasters of his last posting. And in Milena, we have a young woman from Eastern Bosnia who is seeking refuge from betrayal amid the devastation of besieged Sarajevo.

This was a brave project for a debut novelist, but he’s pulled it off, driven I suspect by an inner passion. Sullivan was wounded in a landmine explosion in early 1993 as he covered the siege of Sarajevo and the war in Bosnia. It was as he recovered that he wrote the first draft of The Longest Winter.

 

Read it.

 

The Longest Winter   pb Twenty7. £7.99

 

 

 

Alex spends some misty rainy season days in the lush serenity of the mountains in Chang Rai

By Alex Bannard, Thailand correspondent.

 

A good friend recommended doing the elephants in Chang Rai…at the Anatalaya. So off the Bannard family went.

After breakfasting watching the mist on the surrounding mountains clear, we spent our first full day there out on a bike ride around Chang Rai. Our guide took us around the surrounding countryside, showing us water lilies which apparently taste ‘a bit softer and not very like morning glory’, so I’m guessing not that good, then. We saw fields of rice paddies and pineapples and forests of rubber trees with the bark pulled down to encourage the latex to drop into containers tied into the trunk.

Then we went to the white temple, Wat Rong Khun, which was designed by Chalermchai Kositpipat, a famous Thai artist. It is spectacular and so different to any temple I have seen yet. Quite macabreand yet strangely entertaining there are skulls hanging from trees, a moat of hands reaching up from’hell’ in as a bridge escorts you over them away from temptation towards redemption in the safe confines of the temple.

 

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We also wrote out wishes on silver leaves to be hung from a nearby tree. The kids love doing things like this and diligently scrolled their wishes based upon a loving kindness meditation I’ve been teaching them.

We cycled further to a natural cave full of bats and Buddhas, a total of 28km expertly completed by my little Tour de Chang Rai-ers. I loved the ride. Next stop the elephant ride. Whilst I am delighted these magnificent creatures have a way to earn money for their mahoots without begging on the streets, I am all too painfully aware of the ethical implications. Elephant’s spines are not designed or strong enough to carry heavy loads of tourists and these beautiful creatures are often subjected to barbaric training and living conditions.

It is extremely distressing to see them chained to a post but a good life lesson for the kids none the less and prompted discussions regarding animal welfare. The children enjoyed feeding them baby bananas, especially to one elephant who ‘squealed’ her delighted and a gentle more please.

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Obviously the day ended with the ubiquitous ride down the river in a long tail boat. It was a great start to the trip and we were rewarded with well-deserved beers on our return to the hotel. I absolutely recommend the bike tour as a way to see Chang Rai. Elephant experiences at your discretion.

 

The following day, started in the mist and rain at the tea plantation. Acres of rolling hills and green, green leaves. The smell of tea wafted from the ‘wilting room’ where millions of leaves are left to dry out.

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Onto Doi Tong for a tour of the King Mother’s chalet in the mountains. A wonderful take on the blending of Swiss and Thai architecture as we toured this humble abode and heard tales of how well regarded she was as she restored Doi Tong and the surrounding area from a barren opium wasteland capable only of supporting drug trafficking, into the lush landscape which now supports local agriculturists, horticulturists and their families.

 

On our final day we decided to visit the Black House, Baandam a museum celebrating the work of local artist Thawan Duchanee. This unusual collection of dark teak wood houses in a village on the out skirts of Chang Rai is as fascinating as it is weird. Lots of houses full of skeletons, crocodile and snake skins, various furs, furniture made from buffalo horns and the occasional onion shaped concrete monstrosity filled with circles of giant shells. Utterly fascinating and completely bonkers.

 

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The trip drew to a close with a visit to Wat Phra Kaeo, where in 1434 a bolt of lightening cracked the old Chedi to reveal the original Emerald Buddha which now resides in a temple in grounds of the Grand Palace in Bangkok after touring a variety of cities in the north of Thailand and southern Laos. A fake emerald Buddha rests in this Wat, well it is Thailand: fake or original it’s all the same, or as they say guaranteed original fake. A local monk thought my son in his orange t-shirt had his eyes on a stint in the monastery and I relished the buzz and sense of community in this very real temple, as novice monks gathered in small groups and the real deal got on with all things divine.

So luxurious elephant experiences or not, Chang Rai is worth a trip, the scenery alone is stunning but the randomness of unusual temples, the lushness of the tea plantations and some unexpected attractions is so alluring too.