A bit early but what about these for Christmas.   By Milly Adams

 

For the animal and bird lovers out there, here are two lovely books. I don’t use that term lightly. They really are an absolute delight and suitable for any age, really they are.

Let’s start with two owls. Yes, that’s right, owls.

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Jonathan Franklin was told of two orphan owls shortly before he was due to return to school. Of course he adopted them, and there he was a dad aged 16. Off they went to Eton, the three of them. Tweedledum and Tweedledee were accepted by Jonathan’s housemaster, who seems to have been a pretty close facsimile to Mr Chips.

Two Owls at Eton was written by Jonathan Franklin in 1960 , but has just been updated. It is a classic as Dum and Dee lead their dad on a merry dance, pretty much like any toddler. Destruction was the name of the game, and food, provided by ‘dad’ in the form of mice, liver, and all sorts, often with the support of other boys, and of course, the housemaster. It was always Jonathan’s intent to bring them up until they were able to leave home, and fend for themselves. Ho hum.

Well, yes, they do leave, but much like our kids, there are the trips home, not quite with the washing, but a meal is always a good idea. A lovely book, kind and empathetic. I didn’t know owls can’t move their eyes, only their heads.

Two Owls at Eton John Blake Publishing hb. £9.99

Another to wring the withers is

A Friend for Life, with a foreword by Paul O’Grady MBE

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This is a collection of true stories of love and rescue from Battersea Dogs and Cats Home. I am not allowed to help at any rescue centres because I would bring them all home. We have a Cavachon, a Cockerpoo, (more cock than poo) and a rescue British Blue cat. I would have more. Him indoors has put up the barricades.

These stories are moving, gentle, and optimistic as cats and dogs are taken into their ‘forever’ homes, and quite clearly heal their owners, just as much as they are healed. But that is no surprise, it’s what animals do.

There are battles of wills as these animals, who have not had the best start in life, learn to behave and enjoy a loving but firm environment. You’ll just love it.

A Friend for Life. Penguin   £6 99

Two books for the Christmas stocking, but do read them first .Or ask Santa to give you a copy of each.

Melobaby Melotote Changing Bag Review

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The Melobaby Melotote really caught my eye when I saw it. It has a great, unique design. But that was not all. It seemed to have lots of compartments and a separate bag for the milk bottle. So did it live up to expectations? I have reviewed a lot of parenting bags and I can say that the Melotote is my favourite. It is almost impossible to not be organised with this bag. It has the perviously mentioned separate bag for the milk bottle which is insulated. The two compartments at either side are also insulated for drinks and snacks. The nappy mat is great, coming in a plastic bag which can also take some nappies. It has a beautiful soft fleece on one side and a washable fabric on the other. I love it. The bag is also designed that so when it is on the floor all of the compartments stay upright and in place. Brilliant.

The bag also has some zipped compartments on the outside, very handy. It comes with a strap, two handles, and two small straps which allow it to fit onto any pram. My only gripe is that the clip on the strap had to be pushed back when it came out.

This is a great bag which takes a lot of the stress out of parenting. You cannot underestimate the importance of a good changing bag. You don’t want to get flustered looking for things. I give this bag full marks. Smart functional design which also looks great. What more could you want?

 

Super stylish and extremely practical, the award winning MELOTOTE is the changing bag parents won’t want to live without.  Its sophisticated, good-looking design means it will be used long after baby is out of nappies!

Perfect for days out, this top quality changing bag has been specially designed to be lightweight, and offers easy access with all the right pockets in all the right places.  It features two interior insulated pockets for bottles, drinks and snacks, a large internal full length padded compartment for everyday essentials, two external pockets and two external zipped pouches to keep all mum and dad’s essentials safe.  Belongings can be spotted and accessed quickly and the bag’s structured design keeps it upright when placed on the ground.

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The MELOTOTE comes with a washable, super-soft fleece mat which is wipe-able on one side, and stored in its own handy carry pack which can also hold nappies.  An insulated bottle bag in matching,easy-clean fabric is also included.  Parents can use the bag’s adjustable shoulder strap or the easy carry tote handles, plus the handy stroller straps enable the bag to hang neatly from any pushchair.

New to the collection of fabric designs is the smart Chevron Grey, or parents can choose from Black, Love Navy or Love Black & White.  Priced at £75, the MELOTOTE is an exceptional changing bag at a great value price.

Here’s a mum’s view on the MELOTOTE.  Debbie has considerable experience in the nursery industry and has been trying out the MELOTOTE recently for the first time with her two children:

“As I have been in the nursery industry for 16 years and have two small children I have been lucky enough to try many different changing bags in my time and I can honestly say the MELOTOTE is the best one I have had so far!  Not only does it look really sophisticated and sleek but it is so neat as it stores everything in such an organised manner.  It allows even the most disorganised mum to be neat and tidy! The wide opening allows you to find everything really quickly and when you throw it on the floor it stays upright and keeps everything inside.  You can really feel the quality of the finish and all the additional features, such as the super-soft fleece mat in its own wipeable pouch and the matching bottle bag, make the bag great value for money.”

Stockist: www.maguari.com

 

Katharina Luther: Nun, Rebel, Wife by Anne Boileau – Review by Frances Colville

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There’s an interesting trend in historical fiction writing to search out the lesser known characters from our past and shine a light on their lives. Anne Boileau has chosen to base her debut novel on the life of Katharina van Bora, an ex nun who becomes the wife of the 16th century German reformer Martin Luther. Little is known about Katharina or indeed about the day to day life of Martin Luther himself, but Anne Boileau successfully takes the known facts and weaves them into an intriguing tale by allowing Katharina to write her own story up to the birth of her first child while she is confined to bed after a threatened miscarriage.

 

It all starts a bit slowly and isn’t the most compelling of reads, but it picks up pace as the tale progresses and is worth persevering with. I particularly liked the vivid and very visual descriptions of the German countryside, and the detail of meal preparation, food preserving, keeping house, herbal medicine and the education and care of children. Anne Boileau is a poet as well as a novelist and it shows in her writing, as does her interest in the countryside and land management. The period detail is good and the glimpses into the thought processes of Martin Luther and the turmoil his views caused at the time are well handled and intriguing. And if that is the sort of historical fiction you enjoy, then this is one for you.

 

Katharina Luther: Nun, Rebel, Wife by Anne Boileau is published by Clink Street Publishing and available in paperback priced £8.99 or on Kindle priced £3.79 from 4 October 2016

 

 

Wine reviewing is a tough job, but someone has to do it – lucky lucky me.

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I’ve had such a great time trying:

 

Villa Maria Private Bin Pinot Noir Marlborough 2015

This glorious vintage wine is medium bodied  with fruit flavours, and herbs in there somewhere. It put me in mind of a burgundy I had in France on a warm summer day, but this I think has the edge on that, with its richness of dark cherry, and spices. Just my sort of wine. I loved it.

Sir George Fistonich, founder and owner of Villa Maria says, ‘A leader in sustainability, innovation and quality, our family winery is recognised as an icon in the New Zealand wine industry.’ Tastes good too.

Sir George suggests it should be drunk with game meats or cheese.

RRP: £13.35 | Stockists: The Co-op, Morrison’s, Asda, Hailsham Cellars, Vino Wines, Temple Wines, Bin 21, Famous Wines, www.nzhouseofwine.co.uk

 

But you must also try:

Villa Maria Private Bin Shiraz- Hawkes Bay 2014.

 Shiraz is always a good bet for our household. Up to now I’ve preferred the Australian’s Shiraz but this is excellent, and just as good. It’s such a friendly accessible wine, and has an intensity of flavour, fruity, with a hint of pepper I thought. Just that little bit of – not exactly bite but – well, peppery. And a lovely deep colour. I wonder if this is because the grape tends to respond well to a free draining soil?

A great after taste, very smooth, full of flavour, too moorish, quite frankly. Gulp gulp. Try it with red meats, game and cheeses.

RRP: £13.35| Stockists: Wine Rack, Hailsham Cellars, Dylan’s Wine Merchants, Islington Wine, www.nzhouseofwine.co.uk‘

 

 

 

MumsThread: No, Women Can Not Have It All By Getting Up An Hour Earlier

get up an hour earlier, have it all, women, First it was in the papers. Then it was in some magazines. Of course, it was in the Daily Mail. It was sexism and bullshit dressed up as self-help. It said that women can have it all if they just get up an hour earlier. Much like a lot of self help: it was geared towards women to let them know that they weren’t good enough. That they weren’t working hard enough, that nothing they give is enough. Because, ladies, we should all be getting up an hour earlier. The leading story on The Daily Mail earlier today was a group of slim, successful working mothers who all get up at 4am. For quality time, to exercise, to work. Well I have had enough. You know what women really need? More sleep. I already work to 1am most nights, I don’t need to cut off hours at the other end.

Now, getting up earlier isn’t necessarily bad advice, but I take umbrage at it being marketed to working mothers. To any woman actually. Now, nothing happens in a vacuum. This started when author Samantha Ettus claimed to have come up with the formula to living a guilt-free and fulfilling life in her new book The Pie Life. I haven’t read the book, and getting up earlier IS a good way to get more done. But it doesn’t fit everyone and too many publications have taken it and used it as a stick to beat women with. Sleep is important for health, and if you are tired you will be less alert. I get more done when I have had a good nights sleep, I am sure you do too.

The truth is, no one gets to have it all and the bigger truth is that it would take more than an extra hour for me to fit it all in enough to have it all. What working mothers really need is for daddy to help out more. Or a nanny, a cook, and a cleaner. I am not saying that men don’t do their fair share, but I would like articles to point this out more: that a child has two parents and that mum needs a break sometimes. Working smarter is better than working harder. I get hardly any sleep as it is and there is no way in hell I am letting anyone take that away from me. So sleep ladies. Sleep until the baby/toddler/child wakes you up, and if it is a weekend, make sure you hand them over to daddy for an extra 10 minutes.

Silk – great Asian food in a courtroom

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Silk – an Asian restaurant in an old courthouse

Silk Restaurant at the Courthouse Hotel, Marlborough Street, London

Just across the road from Liberty’s – just a few yards from Oxford Circus – is a rather squat stone building. Until 10 years ago it was Marlborough Street Magistrates Court, where a large number of ne’er do wells, including Johnny Rotten, Oscar Wilde and Mick Jagger faced the might of British justice.

These days it has become one of the trendiest boutique hotels in central London. And in the heart of the building – in what used to be the main courtroom, is Silk restaurant – a pan-asian eatery that brings together flavours from India, Thailand and Sri Lanka. So, keen to try something novel, I took my wife, Carol, there for dinner.

The restaurant is unusual. You certainly don’t feel that you are just around the corner to Topshop. The entire dining area is still lined with the court’s original oak panelling. Part of the joy of eating here is to work out exactly where the various participants of the old courtroom would have sat. The magistrates’ bench is now a sort of servery area. The dock – for the accused – has been left intact. We were positioned just below the bench in an area that would once have been occupied by a stenographer and the clerk of the court and the food emerges from what would once have been the magistrates’ changing room.

Once we’d dealt with the legal niceties, we perused the menu. One of the problems of Asian food in Britain is that it all tastes the same. Restaurants cook the same dishes – the kormas, the bhunas, the tandoori masalas – with the same spices – probably bought at the same wholesalers. I suppose this is in response to popular demand, but it doesn’t make for an exciting culinary experience.

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Char grilled prawns with yoghurt and mint and all the trimmings

Silk is quite different. The menu, I’m glad to say is refreshingly small. This means that the food is stunningly fresh. Starters are unusual. Carol had the Neua Prik Kiew Wan Sod Vollappa (yes, that really is the name of the dish!), which turns out to be strips of beef marinated in green curry. It is strong, it is spicy, it is soft and tastes of fish and soy and basil. We loved it.

I had a Silk Starter platter with scallops and honey glazed chicken and lamb sheekh kebab. The scallops were delightful – soft and firm with a hint of sweetness – and kebabs had a real tang. For main meal we went for the fish. Carol had masala fried cod loin with tomato coconut chilli curry and steamed rice. I went for the tiger prawns with quinoa, mango and cherry tomato salsa. Now, I’m a bit of an expert on tiger prawns and these were stunners. Firm, not overcooked –straight off the griddle and onto the plate.

The side dishes were brilliant. The sugar snap peas were seriously snappy. And the nan bread was incredibly fresh. I’d come back again just for the bread.

The food was simple and the sauces were divine. Yoghurt and mint with the lamb, mango and cherry with the prawns: there was nothing very clever or fancy, but lovely bright flavours. And the portions were reasonably sized – not tiny but not too excessive. This is not the place for a blow out meal but when we left we were pleasantly full.

With a bottle of pinot grigio and a delightful mango creme brûlée for dessert, the bill came to around £100 for two, which seemed reasonable. On the way out we stopped for a drink in the bar. The bar is based in the area that formerly housed the cells. The cell doors are still there and the cells still have the original toilets – although they are not in use – except as seats. It’s one of the most interesting and venues in central London and if you want to give a companion an unusual dining experience it’s almost unbeatable.

Because of You by Helene Fermont Book Review

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When Because of You first arrived I wondered when I would find the time to get through this door-stopper of a book. It is a sprawling and ambitious novel which spans over thirty years and two countries. It tells the story of Hannah Stein, a Swedish teenager who arrives in London. It is well written and engaging, drawing you into the characters lives and leaves you impatient to learn what happens next. I greatly enjoyed this debut novel from Helene Fermont. Her characters are vivid and well-rounded, and the story has intrigue and glamour that brings you in. I particularly loved the parts about London and following thirty years in someones life. The scenes were brought out so well. Because of You is an ambitious triumph.

Because of You spans 36 years in the life of Hannah Stein, a Swedish teenager who arrives in London, at the tail end of the disco era, for a gap year before embarking on a teaching career. The people she meets change the course of her life irrevocably and the novel charts her changing personal and professional fortunes over the next three decades. Because of You is about love, coming of age, friendship, bereavement, stillbirth and rape. Its themes include redemption, acceptance, fidelity and family. Because of You is a story that every woman can relate to. Because of You is the deeply moving debut novel by Scandinavian writer Helene Fermont. It’s a gripping work of modern women’s fiction with a distinct ‘Scandi’ feel and a psychological twist. Scandinavian noir has firmly established itself as a bestselling genre in the UK. Because of You takes the elements that make this style of writing so compelling – the realism and dark, morally complex mood – and combines it with women’s fiction. This is a dark, morally complex and cross-generational story of enduring love, fate and destiny and will appeal to readers who appreciate an emotive, uncompromising and fulfilling read driven by character and circumstance.

Because Of You by Hélene Fermont (Fridhem Publishing) is out now, priced £9.99 in paperback and £3.99 as an eBook. Visit www.HeleneFermont.com

Because of You is available here.

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An Exhibition to Marvel At: L’ODYSSÉE D’UN ROI

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Over the years Burlington Arcade have played host to many decadent and luxurious goods from all over the globe. For one final week, the Arcade will add to its list another legend, a piece so fine and exquisite that following the exhibition tour, it will be auctioned off at the prestigious Sotheby’s. We are of course talking about L’Odyssée d’Un Roi, a collaboration featuring some of the most luxurious craftsmen in the design world and also in the World of the finest Cognac, Louis XIII. If ever there were a chance to see an example of the most impressive French craftsmanship, then L’Odyssée d’Un Roi offers up Louis XIII Cognac, Hermés, Puiforcat and Saint-Louis as it’s travelling companions to complete this unique item.

Alongside L’Odyssée d’Un Roi itself, the exhibit features a chance to see the tools which are used to hand-make each of the items in L’Odyssée d’Un Roi, from the white gold pipettes to the mouth-blown, hand-engraved crystal magnum decanter and glasses. A truly worthy collaboration to such a historic and iconic Grande Champagne Cognac. Follow the journey Louis XIII has made on its passage throughout the ages and bid farewell to a legend which will make it’s way to someone lucky enough to purchase it at auction. With the last one recently selling at Sotheby’s New York for a cool $134,750, we think we’ll just stick to admiring its beauty from afar.

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All proceeds from the auction will go to The Film Foundation, a non-profit organisation founded by Martin Scorsese and several other filmmakers to restore and preserve classic films.

L’Odyssée d’Un Roi will feature at Burlington Arcade until 21st October

Burlington Arcade, 51 Piccadilly, London W1J 0QJ.