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Flirt like a Bond Girl And Shoot Like Bond

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bond girl Eva GreenAuthor, cultural anthropologist and flirting expert Jean Smith takes the art of flirting to daring heights with her new seminar ‘Flirt Like A Bond Girl/Shoot Like Bond’ which takes place at Archer Street, Soho and the Shooting Targets this Valentine’s week.

Inspired by Honor Blackman’s Pussy Galore, Jayne Seymour’s Domino, Ursula Andres’s Honey Rider and Eva Green’s Vesper Lynd, the seminar runs in two parts.

The first is a talk about some of Bond’s most famous lovers and how they use their charms – from the mystical arts to seductive villainy. This will take place at Archer Street, from 7pm-9pm, with complimentary glass of wine on arrival, on Wednesday 12th February.

The experience culminates with afternoon tea and a shooting lesson with tuxedo-clad instructors, as well as the chance to fire one of the latest and most expensive new guns, at the Shooting Targets on Saturday 15th February.

Jean said: “From the enchanting innocence of Domino and the vulnerable Honey Rider, to the gung-ho alpha female embodied by Pussy Galore, we have a lot we can learn from Bond Girls, particular the iconic characters from the earlier movies. “These women can be more than male fantasies. What would they be like if they were living in our modern world? My talk is about how women can use all the ammunition they have to get the man they want.”
Clive Hetherington, owner of the London Shooting Club is on hand to offer this very thing, in the fitting surrounds of a manor house and rolling grounds reminiscent of Skyfall, the last Bond film where rifle shooting was a key part of the plot.

Jean, who will join Clive to co-host the day of shooting, added: “Being busy, having a lot of fun and throwing yourself into interesting pursuits are great ways to boost your attraction to the opposite sex, and in doing so you retain a great deal of power and control. Counting gun shooting among your hobbies and being a mean shot is certainly going to keep the conversation going on a first date, possibly even culminating in a second.” Tickets for the ‘Flirt like a Bond Girl’ experience are available in two parts: £30 for the talk, including a glass of wine, at Archer Street on 12th February and £65 for the afternoon tea plus shooting co-hosted by Jean Smith and Clive Hetherington at the AC Shooting Targets on Saturday 15th February. Alternatively, tickets for both days are £80. All levels are available from www.shootingschool.co.uk/

Dates, timings and venues:
‘Flirt Like A Bond Girl’ talk: Wednesday 12th February, Archer Street, 3-4 Archer St, W1D 7AP. 7-9pm. £30 for the talk only, including a complimentary glass of wine.


‘Shoot Like Bond’ experience: Saturday 15th February, AC Shooting Targets, Sharvel Lane, West End Road, Northolt, Middlesex, UB5 6RA. £65 including afternoon tea, plus collection from South Ruislip station which is located on the Central Line.
Tickets to both days per person are £80.

 

Bond Girl flirting tips: Wednesday 12th February, Archer Street, 3-4 Archer St, W1D 7AP
Followed by gold clay pigeon and rifle shooting: Saturday 15th February, West London Shooting School, Sharvel Lane, West End Road, Northolt, Middlesex, UB5 6RA

 

How To Get Over A Break Up.

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SGPFew things in life are as hard as a break up. Having your heart broken is not for wimps. Yet everyone will go through it at some point. Being left by someone you love will leave you bereft but you will survive. Here is the Frost guide to healing as quickly as possible.

[Note: although this articles is about getting over a man, the same advice mostly applies to women too]

Give yourself time to mourn

Nothing stops the end from being so hard.

When something ends in your life, no matter what it is, it is going to hurt. The end of a relationship is the death of that relationship and you have to give yourself time to mourn.

However, only give yourself a few days, a week maximum to really mop. Sounds tough, but it’s the best way. After that, go out a lot, join some classes, talk to your friends, exercise, or even just spend an evening watching a good boxset or reading magazines. Treat yourself and be kind. You are fragile so treat yourself as well as possible.

Cut him off.

When someone hurts you, react. Forgiveness comes later. Keep your dignity at all times, but don’t let yourself be manipulated. There is a reason you broke up.

Delete him on Facebook, stop following him on Twitter. Delete his number, his email from your contact list, cut him off. If he doesn’t want you in his life, then he doesn’t get to have you as a friend. Don’t settle for second best. He will probably want to keep you around and have you as a ‘friends with benefits’ but you are worth more, don’t do it.

Remove him from your life with surgical precision. Sell everything he bought you on Ebay and use the proceeds to go on a holiday with your girlfriends. Get ride of every mementos. Change your surrounding as much as possible and have a clear out. All of this will help.

Some people think you can be friends with an ex. Maybe you can after a long period, But, I think, the only reasons two exes can be friends is if they still love each other, or if they never did.

Don’t just rebound with the next guy.

Having casual sex will just make you feel worse. Embrace the good things about being single, not the meat market aspect. You will be a different person from who went into the relationship. Give yourself some time to grow and settle into yourself.

Remind yourself what you didn’t like about him.

Write everything down. No one is perfect and there are things he done that drove you mad. Did he play computer games all day? Watch football? Whatever it is, that has also gone from your life too. Thumbs up.

Take responsibility

Take note of what you did wrong in the relationship, the mistakes you made. Learn from every bad experience. It takes two people to destroy a relationship. Your next relationship will be the better for it.

Enjoy being single.

Embrace all the great things about being single. Do all of the things that you love that he hated. Go out and flirt. Flirting is fun and there are a lot of amazing men out there. Go out and date. Enjoy yourself knowing you have no ball and chain.

Become an independent women who loves her life. Remember when Prince William dumped Kate Middleton? Kate shortened her hem lines, and went out with Williams friends looking absolutely stunning. No wonder he fell back in love with her.

[If you follow all of this advice and your ex comes crawling back, think hard before taking him back, all of the old problems will still be there. Don’t throw more good time after bad.]

Let go

Know that everything will get better and that time will heal. After removing him from your life and embracing your new one, let go. Nothing good comes from hanging onto the past. Go out and live your life, knowing that you are better off without him.

My final piece of advice is to not let a bad man ruin you for a good one in the future. There is a good man out there for you. If you become bitter, he wins. Always know that even in the darkest moments that there is a good man out there for you, and one day you will find him. Just keep searching and live your life.