30 Days of Gratitude Day Thirteen #30daysofgratitude

Have you ever heard a baby get the giggles? If not then you haven’t lived. My son gets the giggles quite a lot. Occasionally he will even wake himself up giggling. It melts my heart. Sometimes we go to restaurants and my son will be laughing and the other diners will be looking around, wondering what the noise is. Most people have babies who cry in restaurants, our baby likes to laugh. So today I am grateful for my son’s laughter, and how happy it makes not only my husband and I, but other people. We don’t put identifying pictures of our son on social media, but here is one of him in his reindeer outfit crawling. I hope it gives you a moment of cute.

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Catch up on other days:

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Day 10,

Day 11.

Day 12.

What are you grateful for?

 

 

30 Days of Gratitude Day Twelve #30daysofgratitude

Yesterday I had quite a stressful day. If only I made a list of things I was sick of, I thought, it would be so much easier than my gratitude list. After I thought this I began to wonder if it was true. Life is hard for all of us, no matter how it looks on the outside. We all have problems and stress. Sometimes our inner world is full of pain and turmoil will those on the outside look at us thinking we have it all together, or envy what we have. There are some emotions I never allow myself to indulge in: envy and jealousy are two of these. If someone has something that I want, I either go and get if for myself, or I deal with it in a mature way. We don’t all get what we want, and neither should we. So today I am grateful for what I do have. As I write this the sun is coming in through the blinds and some beautiful roses my parents bought me for my first Mothers’ Day are on the table. It is a Saturday so my husband is at home. This is when I am most happy: when I have my family around me. So today I am grateful for being loved enough to be sent flowers, grateful for my boys, and grateful just to have so much to be grateful for. Even if, on bad days, I feel that it can not rival all of the things getting on my last nerve.

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Catch up on other days:

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Day 4.

Day 5.

Day 6.

Day 7.

Day 8.

Day 9.

Day 10,

Day 11.

What are you grateful for?

 

 

30 Days of Gratitude Day Eleven #30daysofgratitude

Today I am grateful for friends. I have amazing friends and for that I am lucky. They know who they are. I love all of you gals and guys.

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Lynn and Steve.

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Hen night fun.

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Keshini.

I am friends with Holly even though she looks like this in a bikini. That is real friendship.

I am friends with Holly even though she looks like this in a bikini. That is real friendship.

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Margaret.

Catch up on other days:

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Day 5.

Day 6.

Day 7.

Day 8.

Day 9.

Day 10,

What are you grateful for?

 

 

Lover by Anna Raverat. A review by Frances Colville

Lover by Anna Raverat. A review by Frances Colville book review books good reads

What happens when the relationship you thought was solid, even if not earth-shattering, comes to an unexpected end, leaving you with two young children to care for (and explain things to)  at the same time as the job you loved starts to become complicated and untenable?  In her new novel, Lover, Anna Raverat tells the story of Kate and how she copes with just that situation.  T

he book begins with a Charlie  M Schulz quote: Sometimes I lie awake at night, and ask, ‘Where have I gone wrong?’ Then a voice says to me, ‘This is going to take more than one night.’ which sets the scene and tone nicely.

Kate is a well-drawn character with whom it’s not hard to sympathise and her story is told with sensitivity and intuitiveness.  And while it’s not a wholly original plot,  there is enough individuality here to make this novel a good read.

Lover by Anna Raverat  is published by Picador and available in hardback and as an ebook from 10 March 2016

 

 

Gardening Fun for the Kids

The Children's Garden

The Children’s Garden

There are two ways of getting your children into the garden and away from their Xboxes and Playstations. Either you can lock them outside and ignore their frenzied screams, or you can buy them a book like this.

The Children’s Garden is written with parents in mind. it has lots of great ideas and projects, so that youngsters can actually enjoy their time in the great oudoors. You can have a lot of great fun, with very little money if you do simple things such as pond-dipping or going on bug hunts to uncover beetles and woodlice and other creepy crawlies

The book has chapters devoted to simple things such as growing vegetables, including potatoes and spring onions, which can all be done in just about any container. And it makes the very valid point that children are more likely to eat things that they’ve grown themselves. And they can have lots of fun growing flowers from seed such as nasturtiums and sunflowers – which are really great because they are completely edible so even if the seeds end up in a toddler’s mouth, they won’t do any harm.

This book is a handy size – not too big – and has lots of great pictures. And if you want to inspire your child with a lifelong love of gardens and gardening, this is a great place to start.

The Children’s Garden by Matthew Appleby is published by Frances Lincoln, £14.99

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Writing Short Stories for Magazines

Short Story Magazines

The Most Important Thing You Need to Know

 

There isn’t a secret recipe to success so it’s no use looking for the answer here.  If you want to write short stories and sell them there is one thing you need to do before you even begin to write your story. Market Research. You can’t write a story and send it off willy nilly. You may sell one or two that way, if you are extremely lucky, but for continuous success you need to know your reader.

I’d advise selecting one or two magazines that publish short stories. Those accepting them at the moment are, among others, Woman’s Weekly, Take A Break, Fiction Feast, The People’s Friend and Yours. You can find a full list of markets at www.womagwriter.blogspot.co.uk

Read through all of the stories in your chosen magazine and find something that resonates with you, those that might be similar to stories you would choose to write. Most importantly, read them with respect. Don’t sneer and pass judgement. It’s a hard market to crack and if you disrespect your reader your writing will come across as patronising. Guess what? No sale.

Get a pen and paper and make notes. What are the characters names, what ages? Where do they work?  Where are the stories set? What are they about – family, romance, comedy, thriller? Each market has its subtleties and you need to make yourself familiar with them if you are to have any hope of success.

What is the word count? Each magazine has set limits. It’s no good sending a 700 word story  to Woman’s Weekly when they only take 1,000 or 2,000 words. It will come straight back to you.

Now read the entire magazine, the articles, the readers’ letters, the adverts, the problem pages. You can learn so much about the readership by doing this and then you will be able to build a picture of your ideal reader. Do it as an exercise. Imagine a woman buying that magazine – what does she look like? What job does she have? Where does she live? Before you know it you will have a character; you may even have a story – get writing.

Editors are busy people. Make things easy for them. Present your work as per their guidelines, found on their website. If you are unsure how to set things out pop over to writer Sue Moorcroft’s website because she has the best example I’ve seen on how to present a professional manuscript. It will save you so much time and effort  www.suemoorcroft.wordpress.com/manuscript-presentation

 

I’ll be talking at Words for the Wounded Literary Festival on 16th April and will be happy to chat about writing short stories for the commercial market throughout the day.

 

Tracy Baines’ stories have appeared in Woman’s Weekly, Best, Take a Break, The People’s Friend, Candis, My Weekly, Yours in the UK – and magazines in Scandinavia, Australia and South Africa. She has completed a book on Eating Disorders and is now working on a novel.

On International Women’s Day FEMALE ARTS launched Friend Scheme as a #PledgeForParity

female, arts, feminismFemale Arts magazine launched a friend scheme on International Women’s Day, 8 March 2016.

The online arts review magazine, headed by Editor-In-Chief Wendy Thomson is based at South Street Arts Centre, Reading and reviews events across the UK.

“The theme of this year’s International Women’s Day is #PledgeForParity where business leaders from Sir Richard Branson, founder of the Virgin Group to Mark A. Weinberger the CEO of E&Y have made the pledge. We’re inviting everyone to make the pledge by joining our friend scheme so that we can continue our work to promote gender equality in the arts.”

Female Arts magazine annually reviews hundreds of female led performances, exhibitions and events and has a dedicated volunteer team of writers headed by an editorial team including London editor Michael Davis and Interviews Editor Amie Taylor.

Female Arts also produce events. Wendy Thomson said, ”As part of this year’s International Women’s Day celebrations we co-produced the launch of a new award for emerging female playwrights at the Greenwich Theatre in London – RED Women’s Theatre Award on Sunday 6th March 2016. We have also organized events at The Southbank Centre and The Bread and Roses Theatre, working with other advocates for gender equality including Gender and Performance (GAP) Salon and the So and So Arts Club.”

The Female Arts friend scheme is available to join from £30 a year at www.femalearts.com/friend where the benefits include a profile on the Female Arts website and networking opportunities.

Facebook: www.facebook.com/femalearts Twitter www.twitter.com/femalearts

International Women’s Day #IWD2016  #PledgeforParity  http://www.internationalwomensday.com/

 

 

J.D. Robb Brotherhood in Death Book Review

J.D. Robb Brotherhood in Death Book Review

J.D Robb (AKA Nora Roberts) does it again. This is a riveting and well written book. It is almost impossible to put it down. A superb, entertaining thriller. Get your hands on a copy now.

The new novel featuring homicide detective Eve Dallas from the #1 New York Timesbestselling author of Devoted in Death.

Sometimes brotherhood can be another word for conspiracy. . . .

Dennis Mira just had two unpleasant surprises. First he learned that his cousin Edward was secretly meeting with a real estate agent about their late grandfather’s magnificent West Village brownstone, despite the promise they both made to keep it in the family. Then, when he went to the house to confront Edward about it, he got a blunt object to the back of the head.

Luckily Dennis is married to Charlotte Mira, the NYPSD’s top profiler and a good friend of Lieutenant Eve Dallas. When the two arrive on the scene, he explains that the last thing he saw was Edward in a chair, bruised and bloody. When he came to, his cousin was gone. With the mess cleaned up and the security disks removed, there’s nothing left behind but a few traces for forensics to analyze.

As a former lawyer, judge, and senator, Edward Mira mingled with the elite and crossed paths with criminals, making enemies on a regular basis. Like so many politicians, he also made some very close friends behind closed—and locked—doors. But a badge and a billionaire husband can get you into places others can’t go, and Eve intends to shine some light on the dirty deals and dark motives behind the disappearance of a powerful man, the family discord over a multimillion-dollar piece of real estate . . . and a new case that no one saw coming.

Brotherhood in Death is available here.